Monday, July 19, 2010

Today's Love Note: I'm A Big Girl Now

So its needless to say that times have changed as far as what is acceptable behavior for women in relationships and sex. Thirty years ago if you were living in the same house with a man that's not your husband, noses would be turned up at you...now it is quite the opposite. But even with this change in society, I find women still having the need to justify their actions in the bedroom. You know what I'm talking about. The ol' "Hell, I'm grown" excuse so many of us use to justify something "risque" we just did. But what does that even mean?? If sleeping with someone on the first date was slutty to you when you were 16 why is it different at 25? If it was dangerous to get in bed with someone you barely knew in high school, what makes it safer now that you have a career? Is being "grown" a true validation for some of our sexual acquisitions or just an excuse to give into our desires without feeling like a rebellious teenager?

What do you think Loves?

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